So, I have been seeing this guy for two months. At first he used to text me first, all the time and ask me out and text me silly texts. That was when I was more aloof and didn't really care, I was just going with the flow. But then I started to grow all these intense feelings for him and I started initiating texting him. I think it got to point where he just expected me to text him all the time. But now all of a sudden I haven't heard from him in oh...about two weeks?! Two freakin' weeks! WTF. I did text him a text though that basically went along the lines of "we need to talk" (stupid, I realize now). And then I sent him follow-up texts over the next few days after that and he has yet to reply to any of them. I thought he and I had this incredible connection, he was always affectionate with me and we would talk for hours about anything. I know that he's busy working two jobs and has a band. I miss going out on real dates with him which is why I texted him in the first place about wanting to talk, but he doesn't know that. Is he scared? Is he trying to figure out what he wants to do with the situation? Will I ever hear from him again? What should I do? Maybe there is nothing I can do but 'not expect to hear from him ever again'. Ugh.
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sounds like all you can do is go about your life and if he contacts you or not well who knows..
its been my experience when women do this they are simply no longer interested and its best to just move on so id imagine its the same for men, but you never know what he's got going on.0