What if I slept with him on the first date?
We had an instant connection, it felt right, and it was great!
Just wondering If I made a mistake.
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there's no way to answer this without knowing what the guy is like - everyone's different, and some people are small-minded enough to treat you differently even though you did the same thing (they'd call you an "easy lay" and him a "stud") :(
if you had fun & enjoyed it, then whatever else happens, you can hold on to that and be pleased with it. hopefully he had fun too & will want to get together again (which I guess is what you want).
the only thing I might suggest is to play it cool & not throw a lot of calls or messages at him; you've started off kind of "relaxed" so it's probably best to keep it that way for a bit.