Me and this guy hungout 11 days ago and he told me he wanted to see me again. I haven't heard from him since then. I saw him for the first time today at work and he just looked at me. What happened?
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I am going to try to answer this as gently, but honestly as possible.
The "hang out" as you call it, soundws like it was just that. No big deal to him. Unfortunately, this is just the way that some guys let a girl down, by not calling.
I know this drives women absolutely nuts, but it's reality. Now, there are all kinds of guys, but 11 days? Yeah, this means he's just not into you...sorry.
Also - it's important to understand that when a woman says "I will call you", what she usually means is the very next day. When men say "I will call you", it means before we die. This is what makes dating so difficult for both men and women in my opinion, because we really do think quite differently. Men are so much better at the asking out part (in general), but most women are much better communicators, especially when it comes to feelings.0