I was with my ex for 2 yrs. When we found out I was 2 months preg he fell off the radar. he came back when I had 4 weeks left. I told him the only life I want him in is our son's. my son is 14 months now and I'm ready to date again.
is it going to be hard to date now that I'm a mom?
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Yes it's going to be a lot harder for you. From a mans point of view it's hard to get involved with a single mother for a few reasons the biggest is how to react to the child... Do you treat him/her like a 3rd party which will feel wired or do you bond? Trouble with bonding is if the relationship breaks up then he will be breaking up with two people (you and your child)
Also most men like the idea of having their own children they can put some effort into rather than another mans. It's not fair I know but that's life and it sounds like you got treated badly.