So there's a girl I met at the end of last semester and we just talked all summer just texting dirty and joking with each other. Well she's coming back to visit the area and we're kinda planning a one night stand lol. Do you girls usually not joke about this to much unless your serious.
--- She constantly well send me messages for fun, epically when she's drunk and she always wants to flirt and stuff with me.
I'm not ganna say no, but is she serious
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First off - girls can be just a pervy & dirty minded as a guy. Some of us are completely comfortable with talking, laughing, and joking about sex. This doesn't always mean we are going to hop into bed with you. But if you two are actually making plans while she is in town, then it is a possibility. What kind of relationship did you have before she left the area?
My advice would be to keep it casual and let things happen. If she is looking to hook up then she will let you know. Just don't pressure - keep up your usual routine of 'keeping it light' and joking. It is hard to read between the lines with texts but in person you will be able to read the 'vibes'.0