What criteria do men use to decide which ladies to wink at or email on online dating sites? Are most men winking/emailing at tons of women?
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1) It can't sound like SPAM. You take a look at Craigslist, and a lot of them say the same thing, not even generalities but specific stuff.
"I am __________________(description)
I am told I have a nice body. What do you think?"
"I am kinda shy at first until you get to know me. "
"I have curves in all the right places, and a body that'll make you melt."
A lot of the time, they'll post a picture, say, of a blond woman, and she's describing herself as having dark brown hair.
It's not the least bit consistent with the picture, which makes it sound like Spam.
2) For me, you have to have a nice picture.
Personally, posing nearly nude with your legs open or a tiny mini skirt or where you're squeezing your breasts together. (you know, the "overly sexual poses") will just turn me off, because I'm looking for a relationship with a woman of faith and and some modesty. But some guys would probably go right for that "slutty" look. I would just suggest if you don't want creeps, you can minimize the amount by keeping the photo classy. And yes, you can still be a bit sexy in the photo, but in a classy way.
If you're heavy, don't be showing off lots of skin and wearing clothes three sizes too small.
3) The description has to sound nice; it has to be something I can respond to or ask questions about. Something that creates a good icebreaker is ideal.
4) I like a woman that can mention a strong christian faith.
5) And if you sound angry or non communicative, then that will be a problem.
I had what seemed like a cool girl. I contacted her, and she wrote back a few days later. I responded, then it was two weeks later and a really quick answer. She didn't ask anything about me, she didn't seem to want to talk. She seemed alright, but it just wasn't working. It was hard getting her to answer back. I wish her the best, but I was a tad bit confused as to what she wanted because it seemed like pulling teeth to get her to write more than a sentence.
I've seen ads where the women go on and on about how they've been hurt, and how practically all men are pigs, liars and cheaters. etc. Eeeew.
6) Good punctuation is important.
If you rite wif a bunch of badli spelld wirds an can't capitolize and you run you're sentances togethar or have no punxtuashun o/ rite in text speek to much an you run all you sentences togeder and bring up tooooooo moch words in a senetense it cann get reely diztrakting I get soo turnd of lolez because I wants a woman who cann speak an' speeeeel widout sounding like she's riting caturday diskripshuns tho I dunt meen too sound lie a jerk I'm sorri if ofendz any1 because por spellers are peeplez to my sistor iz a por spellar an I think ur lovly oderwize and I m nott triing to mak fon of ani1 wif bad edukashun or wif lurnding disabababability'z or mabe even disleczia or any1 hoo doesn't speek eng as a furst lengwaje but I tot can't hav a dating relashunship wif you tho mabez wee can b frends an I luvs you forever thenk u.
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