How long does a guy usually wait to text or call the girl. 12 days and I think its going to be longer...or never?
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Sometimes it's hard to tell this. I think some guys won't because they are insecure or afraid of rejection if we don't text back or pick up. Or they don't want to bother or annoy us, or something along these lines. I think some (a lot?) guys have a messed up sense of time, too (well, this is probably true of a lot of people in general, me included). Sometimes daaaays can pass before they realize, "Oh, I meant to call her. I'll call tomorrow..." and then it's two weeks.
Then there are the jerks and players, and you shouldn't want one of them to text or call you anyways. Sometimes they want to control the relationship and this is one of the ways they do it. There are a lot of reasons. We could sit around all day and wonder. I'm 30 and chasing a 31 year old dude, going through the same thing. The only way to really figure out what's up is to let down your pride and communicate first. I know, it sucks. I'm as stubborn as you are.1