if a guy you've only known for a little bit kisses you on the first date should you kiss him back? is that way to early for that?
Most Helpful Girl
I am not disagreeing with 'Raider Z' but I understand everyone has different experiences, and just saying that there are girls out there that have 'rules' and aren't necessarily the heart breakers. I, for one am one that doesn't kiss on a first date. I just don't want to give in too easily. And I want to go on more than just one date to see what his behavior is like, personality, get him to be more comfortable, as most I have dated are often nervous on the first date and better/more open on the second. I think it also shows, that if he can wait until the second date for a kiss, it shows that he genuinely is interested in you as a person, and not just for your 'booty', but hey that is just my opinion. If he gets angry, that you did not kiss on the first date, sh*t, he's already being quite needy. Most of the guys I have met that try and kiss on a first date HAVE been players, they are so confident and just go for it thinking they are 'irrisistable' and turn out to have big egos and not a great personality. The ones that don't, I find showed me more respect and take things slow, or at your pace, seeing your comfortabilty showing that they don't want to pressure you into things. A little tip of mine, if he goes in to kiss you, and you don't feel ready just come in close too, and end up giving him a big big bear hug :) That will warm his heart still, and leave him chasing for you :)3