So its Friday night and it seems like everyone else is out with a boyfriend or girlfriend but me. My boyfriend broke up with me but still wants to be friends but he has been throwing other women in my face and telling me over and over again that he is over me and that he will never want me back.So he's out for the weekend supposedly with his family and he told me he was going to call me but he hasn't and I don't think he will until he gets back. So I tried to call my friends and even some family but they are all doing something with with significant others, even my mom is on a date and I'm sitting here trying to find something to do other than work and watch wrestling by myself and fantasising about guys on tv.What do you do when you recently got dumped and just feel completely lonely and how do I get over him?
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Do not keep in contact with him. He is totally disrespecting you, by saying he wants to be friends then going off with other women and hurting you he is laughing at you.
Find people who are single. Get your friends to visit you without there boyf/girlf. Get out there and keep busy. Go meet new people. Do things you never dared do before, and things you know can do because your single.
Write a list, on the positives on being single and pin it on your wall and read it every time you start missing your ex. Get him out your life. He is not healthy for you.
Change your room around, Do things that make you happy. even if its dance to a silly song for a few mins. It gives you a happy buzz and you feel so much better about yourself.
The most important thing to realised is to not rely on a guy to make yourself happy. I strongly advise you to talk to your mum when she gets back and explain how you feel. Spend sometime with her. I did today with my mum. (I myself have been crying today over my ex suddenly contacted me after no contact for a month. He was begging me back to his last night, explaining why he suddenly stopped talking to me, for me to find out the next day he's back with his ex and has been for a few weeks, even though he had me stay over last night).
If you need to talk write to me, I'll write back. Find other people going through a similar situation and talk to each other, help each other out, and when you find yourself advising someone else to leave or be strong, you find yourself wanting to do the same thing, it helps push you into doing it.