Ladies is it just me or is dating guys that are insecure kind of a turn off? Don't get me wrong everyone has their insecurities, but I'm talking extreme here. Like text constantly and always ask "Did you think about me today?" "Did anyone ask about me?" "Do you love me?" OK that last one I made up, but I've gone out with this guy for like a month and I'm sorry, but I feel like I'm dating a girl! I'm not sure how to handle this and I really am getting tired of ALL of the questions every time we are together. Can't we just watch a movie instead of the therapy session? Sometimes I just don't want to talk about my feelings!
Ladies have you ever found a guy like this?
What Guys Said 3
He's desperate, you can do better!
Date a girl lol1
What Girls Said 2
oh gosh! it's like he wants you to be thinking about him ALL the time. Sounds like you're dating someone extremely clingy. You must be feeling irritated at every question. I once dated a guy who always asked "so what are you thinking about?"
If it really gets to you, you should talk to him otherwise one day it'll be your last straw and you'll snap at him. He's probably trying to have his ego patted by knowing that all you think about is him - which might not be a bad thing (you're right, sounds like a girl actually).
Maybe say something when he nexts asks you those questions, like "babe, I think about you all the time and I love you heaps, but I'd like it if you didn't ask me so often.. it kind of gets to me"
I donno... but if you do decide to talk to him stay positive and say "i like it if you..." and try not to say "I don't like this..." or "i hate it when you do this..." do you know what I mean? I hope that helps..0
It is a huge ass turnoff! If you are insecure, you need to work on yourself and loving yourself before you worry about getting into a relationship. Nobody has time to babysit someone's fragile emotions all the time, I just have to be real about that! I had an ex that was super insecure and he was so clingy and overemotional I lost attraction to him. Confidence is key! I'm sure guys hate dating insecure girls for that same reason.1
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