I am married to a really hot guy, he is the perfect husband and I am not worried in anyway about him cheating on me but he has this undelying urge/need to flirt with women of any age. Its harmless I know but I'm just curious what he gets from it. Its like he likes to make all women feel good. It has gotten him into sticky situations on several occasions and this comes as a supprise to him! Women adore him and I am fine with that but what if one day it gets out of control? (Once while I was away, he went out with some friends and one of our friends hit on him big time, he told me all about it in detail and I wanted to kill her!) He says he is unaware that he is doing it and that he will try to curb it. I think if I can understand this need he feels to flirt, maybe I can help him to become aware of it and in time he will stop. Any advice guys?
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I'm a flirty guy, and I do it because it feels good, and makes others feel good. My guess is that he does it for the same reasons.
I'm curious: were you aware that he was flirty when you were dating? If you were, and if flirting was a dealbreaker for you, what caused you to marry him anyway?
In any event, given that he's a flirt and has always been, and probably enjoys it, it's unlikely that he'll stop. It might be easier on everyone if you summoned the grace to look the other way, especially if he's as trustworthy as you say he is.1