soo I gave this online dating thing a try. although I feel like it gives people almost different expectation or even thoughts of who I am or anybody else is, for that matter.
i.e. its weird because I don't go through a week with guys constantly saying. oh ur cute, or blah blah. but when I put my pictures up. and they do, I think, resemble who I am, these guys online would send me messages and such.
but I'm thinking, if I see these guys at the bars, I doubt if they would have teh same reactions. so like I'm hesitant to reply because I think they think I am somthing I am not.
does all this make sense? what are your thoughts
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The internet tends to make things less scary and in a way it's safe (up to a certian point). By thi I mean that people feel brave enough to say whatever they would not normally say to a girl. It's not like a bar where you have to worry about how you look right then and there compared to the other people. People want to get off, sexual IM's, webcams.you name it. If you do decide to talk to a guy take it slow and get to know him. It's very easy to meet guys this way but it is a bit hard to meet quality guys. Just take your time.0