I probably am. I have a tendency to over analyze and that may be the case here.
Last night my girlfriend and I were going to sleep when her phone went off with a text. She said it was from her friend Dan and he wanted her to come over because he was bored. I found the text to be highly inappropriate. While I agree she's entitled to have male friends, I think it's inappropriate for her to be hanging out with them one on one at their houses.
I eventually pretended like I shook it off and tried to get some sleep. But basically got none because I couldn't stop obsessing over how much she must be talking to this dude, and what the nature of their conversations must be if he feels like she would come over at 11P.M. at night because he was bored. She got up and left for work and I sent her a text saying that I hoped she had a great day and that I loved her. Her response: "Yes Sir"
Then tonight, she canceled our plans because she decided we needed some time apart. While I was getting ready to go out she was texting me and told me she's out with Dan having a drink and playing pool. Does this situation seem fishy? Or am I overreacting?
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its kinda up in the air bro.. I have an EXTREMELY close girl-friend that I used to be very intrested in romancing, but I subtly found out she wasn't interested, so I kinda squashed those feelings but we still chill more then her and her boyfriends do. a lot of the time we'll take a few drags together, go in the hottub, watch a movie, hike, or just chill and chat. she'll ask me why he does certain things, etc etc.
i'm not saying she can't be doing something with him, I'm just saying don't assume she is without asking her0