So I meet this guy on a dating web sit and we have been talking for about a two weeks now. He is in the military and he is over seas till July. We talk 1-2 times a day for a few hours at a time or some times all day. I have asked him all the basic question and some deep questions. Their are times he just Doesn't seem that into the conversion or me. He will just give me one word answers. Almost all the time he will start the conversion. What kind of questions should I ask him to get to know him better. He has given me his address over seas and said that I can send him anything I want to. We have had some sexual conversions and both of us really want to meet. He will send me kisses and winks trough yahoo chat and he will start a video chat almost every-time to. how can I tell if he just to be friends with benefits or if he wants more but with the distance he doesn't want to get close with out meeting me in person first . I know I like him so far and would like to see if their can be a relationship when he gets home. This is my first time at online dating and long distance thing. I just don't want to scar him off, come off desperate, or easy. I want to keep his interest so what can I do?
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just go through with it, he is overseas in a warzone? if so, it is a different world, people change and communication to the outside world could seem different to him. I'm currently in iraq and me and my girlfriend have a hard time, but reasurrance and communication is key. if he is starting the convos or video chat, that must mean he is into you. BUT you just met him, keep a look out for other guys as well, and when he gets home, see how things are. if its meant to be, things will work out, if not, well you have your whole life ahead of you!0