So this guy that I've been texting that has a girlfriend of 2 or 3 years flirts with me he's 2years older than me but still consider ourselves friends,and he calls me cute,sexy and told me he had a crush on me like a year ago, and we've been texting for 3 weeks straight now nonstop from morning to when we go to sleep..and he's super sweet and he's so curious as to what I do he's even stayed up with me over text till I finished hw at 1am..and I'm 16 he's 18 and he's nothing but sweet and texted me all throughout my cold too...and even admitted to flirting with me...and even worries about me when I tell him I'm going to drink...and recently he said he doesn't know when he's flirting...so guys do you know when you're flirting? And what do you think about this situation?
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Some guys are pretty dumb when it comes to flirting. And they genuinely don't know when they've crossed the line from being merely friendly, into flirting territory.
Once someone points out the line to them, they find flirting is a lot easier than they ever thought it was, and they never again do it by accident.
He's 18, so it's quite possible he's that ignorant about it. If you don't want him to flirt with you, tell him nicely when he's stepped out of bounds. He'll get it in the end.
On the other hand, if he refuses to stop, or if you don't want him to stop, then you have the other thing you want to know.2