I am feeling very disrespected, like he didn't appreciate me at all... but he said he loved me and I thought he did. I just don't get why a guy would change his mind like that. Any ideas?
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First and foremost. The fact that your confused and sad about this shows that you care, a lot and usually the people who care are good people. Someone who didn't would just leave it and find someone else just like that but that doesn't sound like you.
You've probably already tried to ask him why but if you haven't I'd start there. Assuming that you haven't, I'll only speak for myself. The times I've broken up with a girl has usually been because I wasn't having my needs met. I don't think I ask for anything unreasonable, its mostly like a kiss goodbye, a text message before she goes to bed saying goodnight, giving me the time of day to talk or hangout, and most importantly saying or doing things that would tell me that she likes me and that she wants to be in a relationship (not what you thought it would be?).
But my point of all this is that I like it when my girls SHOW me that they care by doing these things. That is usually the deciding factor of it all because my philosophy is that people can say anything. You can say your going to shoot a fireball out of your arm, but will you do it? The same thing applies to relationships.
I know this is probably not what you wanted to hear. I hope it all goes well for you and if it doesn't just remember that EVERYONE goes through this, guy or girl, and they usually come out of it stronger then when they came in. Good luck.
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