Some people will say that flirting over text message is just an ego thing for some guys, whereas others will say that it's a way of finding out things that you'd be too shy to ask/admit to the person if it were a face to face flirt conversation.
I have flirted over text before with a guy that I like. He likes me back, but I don't know if he'd just pass off what I said to him as harmless fun. Even though it was a bit of fun, I still meant what I said because I like him a lot. Thoughts?
Do guys see text flirting as meaning something more or boosting ego/harmless fun?
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In generally, flirting is serious. People generally don't flirt if they aren't interested though the social context of it allows them to duck and cover it they find out the other person isn't desirable.
One thing I did find out is that people don't generally joke about sex. If they are joking about on the subject of swinging, biplay, SM or pretty much anything else, it is usually a signal of some interest and my be a cue to pursue. Most of the swingers I know got started by one of the partners "joking" about swinging and the conversation eventually took hold.0