So I'm getting the runaround emotionally from a person I've been texting and gone out with some. One day she acts like she cares deeply the next day she sees us as just friends although all the time professing she wants more just needs time. I'm tired of playing the boyfriend role without being the boyfriend. I really would like to develop a deep relationship with this person but every time I try to move forward she shoots me down with maybe lets wait a little bit longer. She has had a bad relationship experience in the past and I don't want to hurt her which I think she would feel me saying outright I think we should stop texting/talking until you figure out where you want to be. What's the best way of saying that without hurting?
How to stop things with someone without hurting them?
What Girls Said 2
I don't think that's what needs to happen. she's obviously confused and you're taking things too fast for her. slow down. maybe go out on innocent dates, walks, talk more, whatever don't try to makeout with her constantly maybe a peck on the cheek/lips and a long hug. I'm sure she wants a relationship and once you guys know each other better on a basic level she'll be more comfortable with you and ready to open up0
Have you considered just pulling back a little. Maybe limiting the texts and times you see her and see what happens...
I had a guy ask me about being exclusive and while I think its a worthy topic in the future, I felt like he jumped the gun a bit (haven't know each other or seen each other much at all), but he's pulled back a little since then and it is driving me crazy...0
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