I have been seeing this guy for 4 months, we have great sex and enjoy our time togather. He travels a lot in his business so when he's home, we usually hang out.watch movies, dinner, etc. We do communicate a lot via text and emails while he is away.but his text are very flirty.like the mmmm's. I am not sure how to take that. I am developing an emotional attachment to this man, just not sure how to take all the mmmm's! Even his emails are sexual.so, help! Am I a FWB or what? Because I am so not a booty call but would love to hear your responses! Thanks
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I want a real relationship with quality time spent together. A similar version of this question was asked by another girl (this kind of question gets asked all the time). Here is my answer on the similar question
But in short, it is the personality that I seek in a girl. Of course I want to be emotionally attached to a girl and I want the same from her. Actually the fliritng games and dirty text messages are part of the fun of being in a relationship. It is so possible to be in a commited exclusive relationship and play these dirty games at the same time. When the couple has a sense of humor it's really good for the relationship. Don't be affraid to have fun and flirt with your boyfriend. I don't know how I could have so much fun with a girl (wether we are playing dirty games or not) and not become attatched to her.
But tell him if he keeps sending the same text message over and over gain (like "mmmm") it gets lame and he needs to come up with new lines.0