I met this guy about two weeks ago and he told me immediately up front that his fiancee passed away in February unexpectedly. They were together for about 3 years. He told me he is not looking to jump right into another relationship but life does go on and he's ready to meet new people and keep living and whatever happens happens. I know everyone has different coping skills but I just would like to get someone's opinion being that his fiancee passed away only a month or so ago. In a way I feel sort of guilty but in another way I don't.
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This would be a huge red flag to me. There is no way this guy can be through a grieving process so either 1) hold on for a bumpy ride or 2) he did not have a real connection to her.
I work with a man who is still struggling with grief from the death of his girlfriend and it was 20 years ago. He has married and has 3 children and the impact of her death still leaves him reeling.
I would not date this guy. I would maintain a friendship but nothing more until I spent several months with him. He needs time to grieve and, if he doesn't, then something just does not add up here.1