First off my ex girlfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. then just this jan, she broke up with me. We don't really get into much fights. I don't know why she broke up with me. but I just accepted it when she told me. no use trying to fight it. its been one month since our breakup. her friends told me that she was entertaining this another guy just during that month. I was hurt and shocked. I don't know if she moved on or if she is just in a rebound relationship. what are the chances that she is in a rebound relationship? because I really want to get her back.
also when I text or call her. she responds immediately we are friends but we don't really contact that much. I just want to keep the communication open between us. so we can communicate easily but not like before.. I really want her back and I need advice
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Oh man, that sucks. My ex did the same damn thing. Left me and then hooked up with other guys only a few weeks later.
One of them is a former friend of mine. I even joked after we broke up that she should date him... and she was like, no, he's nowhere near my type, he's awful, blah, blah... (and he isn't her type - at all)
But that doesn't stop them from dating and sleeping together. It may be a rebound... and your ex may be in a rebound with this guy too. Often, I've read that girls find a guy who is the opposite of the guy they had dated when they are in a rebound.
So, it is likely in your case. Of course, she may have also had eyes on your friend while you were going out... I've thought about that in my case, too.
Either way, I would'nt wait around for them to fail and for her to come back. I know that really sucks, but you need to move on right now. It does, very, very rarely, happen that the ex comes back after a rebound... but don't wait for it.
Focus on making yourself better right now. F***them. Become your own man... she might come to her senses, but you don't need to focus any more thought on her right now.
And if your ex comes back, then it's on your terms. Not because this rebound guy hurt her.0