Okay, so this guy I'm friends with who I graduated with from high school. we werent friends in high school but we became acquaintences after we walked at graduation together. however, we hadn't talked since this january when he fb chatted me. I go to a community college near our hometown and he goes to a school about 2 hrs away so we don't ever hang. well, he's home for spring break and wants to hang out except I don't know his friends and he Doesn't think he's havin another party...he had one last night but I already had plans with the boyfriend. anways, he asked if I wanted to hang out just us and do whatever. I do not think he wants to be my new bf...i just think he's a nice guy and thinks I'm cool and wants to be my friend. I told my boyfriend he wanted to hang out and his response was that that would be shady and disrespectful...what is your opinion? I love my boyfriend but there is something I like bout this guy but I just wanna be his friend Because I love my boyfriend. I get nervous I would cheat on him...idk why I just don't trust myself at all! I'm so confused. lol.
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wow... your in a bit of a dilemma,
if you think you might cheat. THEN DONT SEE HIM... nothing hurts more.
another option could be to just have a cup of coffee with him, But have your boyfriend wait in the car or something. THat way, you can hang out. He will know your not doing anything that bad. and the new guy can talk..0