My girl went on a trip with some friends from work to a hockey game. They were going out clubbing after and renting a hotel (it's about 1.5 hrs away.) She promised to call me when they were back at the hotel so I knew she/they were OK. I got up for work this morning at 3:30 and of course the first thing I did was to see if I had a message and nothing. I have to tell myself everything is fine but I'm sort of pissed at the no call. Am I over reacting or what? I can't help but to think something might have happened to her or them. I do have this thing where I need to know she's back ohme safe after going out and it's sort of our thing.
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I understand that you're a little worried- I always hate not hearing from people if they say they're going to call when they get home. And, at least in my exprience, your girlfriend sending a courtesy message to say she's home safe is pretty normal- guys naturally want to make sure their girlfriends get home OK. Also, guys might not admit it, but they worry almost as much as we women go lol. Are you over reacting? Well, that kind of depends- is your girlfriend usually pretty reliable in the calling department or has she forgotten before. I know I did a couple of times with my ex- I got home, fell into bed, and completely forgot to call until an anxious call from him woke me up. It happens- so the most likely answer is she got in really late and forgot, but she could also have forgottne her phone charger and it died, she could have lost her phone etc. If you're really worried, just shoot her a casual text- ask how her night was. If she has her phone and everything's fine, she probably won't even guess you're worried because it's a pretty normal start to a conversation. If she doesn't respond immediately, give it awhile- she could just be sleeping still. If you don't hear from her by the time they're supposed to be heading home, then I'd say it would be time to call her. If there's no answer, THEN maybe worry.0