just started university in a new country and they are more guys than girls in my program, I met this one guy who started talking to me casually and asked if I wanted to go to the movies sometimes I said sure, I didn't see anything wrong with just going to the movies and didn't think it was something more than that. the day after we went, he had bought the tickets before hand, when we met up he wouldn't let me pay for anything which annoyed me and even more during the movie when he actually tried to feed me a popcorn which I found completly weird and stupid, I pulled away and was wierded out the rest of the movie. afterward he insisted on taking me up untill my stop because it was late, I said goodnight and went right in. like half an hour later he sends me a text, the first of many in the next 4 days saying what fun time he had and acting all like a girl, really. the next day he texted me around 4 times offering to take me out again but I said no as I started to get freaked out. He always ended each conversation playing the friend card and putting ;) this expression afterward, offering if I needed anyhing, etc. later that day he texted me to tell me he had bought me a gift,i didn't text him back yet he still texted me two more time later that night like at around 12 and 2 am. the day after, I was getting annoyed, and found the whole to be quite ridiculous; he continued texted me, called me twice but I still didn't text back until the other day when I just had enough of the this guys intensee way and tried to make him understand that he needs to back off. texting two or 3 words at the most when replying but he still keeps on insisting. are all guys like this? in my country a guy and girl can go to the movies no problem as friends. if a guys ask you, does that means its always going to as a date?
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hey I am a guy and just giving my input. but yeah most of the time if a guy askes you to "hang out" it is kind of meant towards as a date, unless he is a close friend of yours, or long time old friend that you havnt seen in for years. but wait, sometimes that old friend my had an old crush on you back in high school or something and wanted to get to know you more, and then it might be a date. I had two experiences like this, one was when I ask this girl I meant, and asked her if we can hang out sometime, she said yea, and I asked for her phone number in which she gave me, so I was like yea, she seems kind of intrested in me. but then I texted her 2 days after she gave me her number to hang out. she said yea, I paid for everything, and later on that night I tried to give her a kiss, but she said, hey umm, I didn't know this was a date. so I was stuck out, and kind of embarassed, so sometimes girls can be misleading, but what that guy did to you, well kind of stalkerish, maybe a little desperate. but yea try to show what you mean and not what you didn't mean. we are sometimes stupid minded, and tend to think the girl is intersted in me but she really isnt. so we don't know unless you tell us, or we make a move a take a chance, sometimes guys like it when girls are blunt out what they mean.0