So I've been out on 4 dates in 2 weeks with this amazing girl and we plan on seeing each other again this week some time. I'm after your opinion about what this all means. I have been out of the dating game for a while and I'm not too sure how it work these days. So here is the deal...
I'm 26 she is 29. We met online. We've been on 4 dates together and each is better then the previous. On Sunday night I went around to her place and we spent the evening together with pizza, wine and a movie. We had a LONG talk about life, past relationships and what we are both after and I'm pretty sure we are both on the same page and want the same thing... long term, settling down, partner material. We have amazing kisses and we snuggle on the couch o at the movies. We have not slept together yet although she said to me the other night at her place that she would ask me to stay the night but it's "Ladies week", she also said she wanted to invite me in after our 3rd date but that was only a few night before so was also "ladies week". Since our 4th date we have been texting everyday, "good morning" and "goodnight" texts. She calls me "gorgeous", "honey", "sweetheart" but the reason I sometimes wonder is she has also called me "champ", and sometimes she takes a while or won't reply, yet other times she will reply immediately. Today we were texting and at the end of one text I asked of she wanted to do something tomorrow night (she mentioned doing something midweek at the end of out 4th date) but didn't hear back until after I sent her a goodnight text. She said the can't to tomorrow or Thursday but to let her know what days I'm free so we can "hang". I thought the term "hang" meant more of a friend thing? Saying that she ended this text and most other texts with "xxx"
My last couple girlfriends, things have moved fast eg.1) met one day then spent every night that week together. 2) went out of two dates, slept together on the 3rd girlfriend/boyfriend on the fourth. (Although I went to university with this ex).
Also... How much should I be contacting this girl? Continue the way things have been going or ease off?
I'm UBER into this girl and don't want to f**k things up just yet (or at all really)!
I guess I'd really like to hear a girls opinion about what they think this situation means? Any advice would be GREAT!
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Wow this is really hard to interpret! But somehow I get the feeling initially she liked you, but now sees you as more of a friend?Btw girls night = singles night. Also girls are also still nice to guys even after they lose interest. I honestly thinks she likes you but is keeping her options open i,e she isn't crazy over you as you are of her! Trust me... when girls like a guy they don't turn them down for a date and call them 'champ' etc. Unfortunately, you might just have to wait and see what happens. My advice is to step back a little bit and leave the ball in her court. Do not call and offer to take her out etc. If she likes you she will contact you. Time will tell! Good luck!0
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