I'm 26 she is 29. We met online. We've been on 4 dates together and each is better then the previous. On Sunday night I went around to her place and we spent the evening together with pizza, wine and a movie. We had a LONG talk about life, past relationships and what we are both after and I'm pretty sure we are both on the same page and want the same thing... long term, settling down, partner material. We have amazing kisses and we snuggle on the couch o at the movies. We have not slept together yet although she said to me the other night at her place that she would ask me to stay the night but it's "Ladies week", she also said she wanted to invite me in after our 3rd date but that was only a few night before so was also "ladies week". Since our 4th date we have been texting everyday, "good morning" and "goodnight" texts. She calls me "gorgeous", "honey", "sweetheart" but the reason I sometimes wonder is she has also called me "champ", and sometimes she takes a while or won't reply, yet other times she will reply immediately. Today we were texting and at the end of one text I asked of she wanted to do something tomorrow night (she mentioned doing something midweek at the end of out 4th date) but didn't hear back until after I sent her a goodnight text. She said the can't to tomorrow or Thursday but to let her know what days I'm free so we can "hang". I thought the term "hang" meant more of a friend thing? Saying that she ended this text and most other texts with "xxx"
My last couple girlfriends, things have moved fast eg.1) met one day then spent every night that week together. 2) went out of two dates, slept together on the 3rd girlfriend/boyfriend on the fourth. (Although I went to university with this ex).
Also... How much should I be contacting this girl? Continue the way things have been going or ease off?
I'm UBER into this girl and don't want to f**k things up just yet (or at all really)!
I guess I'd really like to hear a girls opinion about what they think this situation means? Any advice would be GREAT!
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