"They go STRAIGHT TO THE PHOTOS. If they like the photo, then they'll like the message they get from the guy. If they don't like the photos, then the exact same message sent from an ugly guy they will say is a 'creepy' message! lol - sad but true."
Girls, what do you think? Elaborate.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm going to assume you're talking about dating sites and the like.
So, imagine you get a message from a girl that reads:
"Hey! I checked out your profile and you seem really interesting. I think we share a lot of the same interests and we'd probably get along quite well. I find you very attractive and would like to get to know you better. Maybe we could meet up for some drinks and see where it takes us. ;)"
Would you feel differently about the message depending on if it came from this girl: link versus this girl: link
Honestly, I don't go straight for the photos. I read the message first, then look at the photos, then read the person's profile. But I won't deny that looks play a role in things.. If the person is unattractive to me, I'm not going to pursue things further. But I don't think this is limited to just women.3
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