I recently got on the website plentyoffish website to help meet women in the new city I moved to (I live in Socal now). Back in my home state I managed to meet a few women on POF. Somewhere not exactly smokin, but a few were.
Now I moved to a new city I am very busy with my new job. I am really trying to save money/time with dating so I am using POF to message a lot of women.
Recently I got emailed from a cute, young chic (she's 21 and I'm in my late 20s) saying she liked my profile. In her pics she is very cute. And she was very responsive to all my emails. Very flirty and we even kidded around about sex a bit. However I was careful not to go too far.
I asked if I could text her in an email. I always ask a girl for a phone number at some point to gauge her TRUE interest level in me and if she is serious about dating and not just looking for attention. It's also a test to see if she even EXISTS. She responded that she didn't feel comfortable handing out her digits, but after getting to know me she would. She then asked for my facebook info. I don't like handing that out, but I don't really have anyway around it since this is online.
She looked even prettier in her facebook profile. I could also see she was having conversations with other folks. But one thing that bothered me is that her facebook profile looked only about 2 months new.
Well I sent her fb message joking around about something she posted. We went back and forth. I then said "I want to get your number so I can hear your sexy voice" (I'm still wondering if she exists. She said she wanted to skype conversation me a few days later. I finally said "I just want to make sure you are some dude making a fake profile". She then decided to completely defriend/block out my profile. But still said she wanted to skype conversation later. Here is the whole history:
ME: sorry to hear your disappointment in your fb post...but I then again this is Cali. Who knows, maybe you can turn him st8...but you won't have that problem with some other people ;)
HER: Sexy Wench of mine, I am feeling 'aroused'...so come over here and take care of my needs. Your payment of 4 cans of Pepsi throwback will be on the dresser. If you're really good tonight, I'll throw in an extra can of cherry coke. *sigh* I know, I am a big spender :D
You'll get used to my sense of humor :x
ME: Haha...pepsi throwback should make a good male enhancement supplement...not that I need it anyway ha.
I don't know about soda...but I remember once using a honey bottle with an old girlfriend mine...:p...ha
So are you back from San Fran?
HER: Honey would be incredibly sticky, no? I think...licking and sucking bare skin is incredibly erotic on its own :x
I should be back Sunday night *knock on wood*
ME: Haaa I love how your naughty little mind works...hopefully it's not all tease...I got a sweet tooth for honey :p. I would like to call you up sometime and make
HER: but what if a girl's natural wetness is sweeter than honey? ;) Pfft, I never say what I don't mean ^_^
Perhaps, when I come back? You did promise to put out on the first date *nods*
HER: I think that I am going to take you off my personal fb, until we skype at the very least. You're the only person that I've added that I haven't met...and you just made me realize that :P
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If you want to talk to her & she doesn't want to give out her #, why don't you give her your # and ask her to call you? That way she can block her # if she is so inclined, and you can speak to each other.
Both of you can be happy then. If she refuses that, then you know something is up. Because that is a win-win situation.0
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