ok so there's this guy I've known for about 2 years.. he asked me out when we first startd talkn but I wanted to get to kno him better first. now he tells me he likes me and still flirts with me and tried to kiss me once when we went to the movie but I told him not to.. but he won't ask me out.. why!?
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why don't you ask him out? f*** chivalry, why does it make a guy less of a man, not masculine if he doesn't take initiative, take charge and ask you out? it's so damn sexist, if only you girls just said "because we are shy, scared, and don't want to be rejected" that would make me feel better, it would make me realize and view it like this "the reason why most girls don't make the first move and ask guys out is because of tradition, and why bother risking rejection when we have all the power to select and choose?" Since society and culture made it the status quo, social norm for the guy to initiate, girls use it to their advantage.2