I've always been the quiet and unpopular guy at school, university, work etc. I wouldn't call myself unpopular exactly but I was never someone who was noticed or well-known. I usually kept to myself and did my own things. I'm not shy, I just didn't spend time trying to gain popularity. I've always been that guy who just floated in the background.
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These girls are full of it. Women go for guys with status, it's a turn-on. Why do you think women f*** their bosses, chase the high school quarterback, go for guys with money, etc? It's in their blood.
Now that doesn't mean you are screwed, you just need a bit more confidence and to find yourself if you know what I mean. You'll still meet girls and still get dates, just your success rate will be less, that's all.
Keeping to yourself is a bad idea if you want to meet women, so is floating in the background. You have to make some noise to be noticed.
Whatever you do don't fall into the "woe is me" thing. Keep your chin up and get out there, you'll meet people.1