I want my ex back, but I don't want to lose the person I have now. I'm so confused. My ex said that if I ever did break up with the person I am with now, he would most likely take me back. But then, I would lose a wonderful guy, to another wonderful guy! Ahhhh. What do I do?!
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I agree with the other responders who have indicated that your ex is an ex for a reason. Also I think you should take a look at the way you rushed into a new commitment without breaking from the prior one. This is a bad pattern to start following. Will you generally be able to choose between two guys throughout your life? Probably, but bear in mind that the guy you're with is treating you well and trying to make you happy. You have made a decision already to be his gal. It's never too early to start standing by your word and showing integrity.
Be careful about rushing into a relationship before being done with the last one. It might be wonderful emotional Advil, but the next guy didn't cause that pain and shouldn't be made to pay the price for the troubles from your last relationship.0