I am tired to see how everything that I do and try always ends up in complete failure and trust me I am what girls would consider “boyfriend” material only to end up in the same place always and them going for something completely different. I chase the good girls and they are just like “bad girls”. It seems that women expect so much of you anyways, not only physically but personality wise as well. All of these rules and tests you have to pass through. I haven’t met any girl who puts any effort at all to make it foster and grow into something more. This is all I find girls with emotional baggage, girls who just play with men for the fun of it, very possessive women and women with very high expectations as well. Its always the same no fun and just confusions and frustrations.
What should I do to make this better or should I just stay single and give up on dating.
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Don't give up...just don't try so hard, but don't be a jerk either. Remember...girl or guy...people always want what they can't have. People appreciate what they have to WORK for. It gives it more value. Trying too hard actually has the opposite effect. It pushes people away whether you're a girl or a guy. I was guilty of the same thing with my ex. If you are "boyfriend material" make the next girl you date work for it a little...if you give everything you got they will never appreciate what you have to give. Be the Selector not the Selectee. Show her your worth by letting her know you have "options". Not literally...but don't be so available..or jump at every opportunity you have to hang out with a girl. Let her know you have your own life that is fullfilling with or without her in it...but still be respectful and a gentleman. The girls that take advantage of you gravitated to you because they knew they could. There are good girls out there who will appreciate everything you ARE most imptantly..and what you have to give. Stay positive!1