Ok, my girlfriend and I have been going out now for a while, and she told some of my friends that she won't kiss me. She said the last guy she kissed, ruined her life. How do I handle this?
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ok I'm going to give you a really romantic cheesy "the notebook" answer because its all I can think of. When you are on a date with her and you are getting the vibe that its times to kiss her just say "just relax. I would never hurt you" and if she doesn't want you to, say "I really want to do this but if its not okay with you then we don't have to." You have to make her feel cared for and convince her that you are not planning on hurting her like the last guy she was with. There is still no guarantee that she will let you kiss her and if she doesn't want you to, do not force her. She will eventually let you when she realizes that you aren't set on ruining her life.0