How long do guys wait to call a girl after a first date?

I hung out with a guy I recently met last week, and it went really well. He was a gentleman and nothing besides talking happened, but the next day he told me how attractive he thought I was and how much had wanted to make a move. I flirted back but also made it clear that I wasn't going to jump in bed with him right away, even though I still wanted to hang out. That was our last conversation, 5 days ago.

I was just wondering how long guys generally wait until they contact a girl they are interested in again.

I know every guy is different, and it depends on how busy he is, but I also know that there is an amount of time that it means he's just not interested.


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What Guys Said 1

  • 3 days. That's the rule for guys. Maybe he wanted to jump into bed with you, but you weren't down with that so he ditched.


What Girls Said 1

  • Have you tried texting him?