Well, it has been a long long ride with my boyfriend. He was the reason I joined GAG because I thought I can share our problems with people here. I wanted to understand men better...
Lately, I've been so unhappy & he didn't care a tiny bit. He's being a jerk..you just have no idea. All the promises, nice words, lovely gestures turned out to be fake at the end.
I finally made up my mind to leave...although I love him but that's not enough. I've put so much effort in this relationship but he's too selfish, brutish & strange. I've asked my good friends here on GAG & they agreed on that.
It's of no use to continue with this man whom I thought will be my husband but he's too self-centered that he cannot see anyone but himself. Let him enjooy being with himself. I'll send him a break-up message saying "I deserved to be treated better. Good luck"..he doesn't even deserve a call. Last phone call I was crying so hard crying for attention telling I'm not happy I want attention, I've been crying for months, etc...He didn't even care a bit...He became even worse. I've give out all the chances but he misused it.
What do you think of the message? & what advices do you have for me after this break-up?
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I can't really say anything else than what I've already told you except that I'm glad you're finally putting yourself and your happiness first. Mohamed isn't right for you and you deserve so much better. You deserve to be loved the way that you love. And it's a shame that Mohamed could not treat you with the respect you deserved.
Say what you're going to say, "I deserved to be treated better. Goodluck/Goodbye" and be done. Saying anything more than that will look like you still care, which you don't. You're over him. And that's the impression you want to leave him with. Don't appear bitter, resentful, etc. you will heal in time. Show him and yourself that you are the bigger, stronger, individual person and you're doing what's best for you and what will be best for both of you in the long-term.
I know this is hard. But this is what you need.
I LOVE YOU. <333333333331
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