This girl is 2 years younger than me and lives about half a mile away. She texts me about every week asking to hang out. We used to hang out no problems at all and got along great. She always comes up with some stupid excuse why we can't hang after we make plans and reschedules for the next day or later on... This has gone on for about6 months now. She says she has depression and anxiety and family problems and apologizes every time. I had feelings for her when we did see each other so I go along with her excuses in hope that well kick it. Now she always texts me to hang I never do but always has an excuse and I waste my day getting ready to be with her. Last night after it happened I told her that somethings wrong I don't want to speak with you for awhile and I need to respect myself more. My question is vague but did I overreact? What does this mean when she does this I'm freaking out and she's got me hinkinthere is a problem with me or something. Any advice would be kick a**.
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Don't cut her out of your life. Especially because she has anxiety. I have pretty severe anxiety, and I know what it's like to have someone fairly close to me just walk out completely without any explanation. Instead tell her why you are mad at her. Tell her how it makes you fell when she does that. Cutting her out of your life might hurt you, and probably hurts her too. Next time when she asks you to hang out tell her that you are busy, rather than waiting for her to cancel plans again.1