My girl and I (the one in the pic) are in a very good relationship and my girl is taking a lot of sh*t from them because me and my girl hang out a lot and she has not really been out with her girlfriends a lot like she use to. There saying to her why are you spending a lot of time with him and we miss you and they see we are happy and I get along with her girlfriends too but, I see the envy in their eyes. Also there single too. My boys are happy for me but, I wish her girlfriends could be that way. Why do girls get so envy when the see one of there bestie happy? They are getting very catty like and is stressing my girl out should I get in volved and say BACK OFF or let my girl handle it?
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Don't get involved. This would cause more turmoil between her and her friends. Just support her and be there when things get rough for her (like right now). It's unfortunate that her friends are not understanding that she has finally found someone who makes her happy. Girls are naturally catty like that.
Not to be rude or mean, she's a beautiful girl, but I'm sure she hangs out with a lot of bitches (judging from her physical appearance). Those girls tend to be very catty and mean... that's just a given. She's going to have to decide to confront them and talk to them. Make them understand that she loves her friends but she has someone who she loves and loves her too. And because of that, she has to choose how to spend her time. This all depends on how she words this and how her friends will take it. I'm not going to lie, it will be completely idiotic if she ditches her friends. I did that in my past relationship and when I needed someone after my break-up, I had nobody. Even if you guys don't break up, it's nice to have a group of friends you can turn to.
All in all... don't butt in but convince her to confront her friends. The more she ignores it, the more drama there is. She's an adult and her friends are adults... I'm sure they can handle a little bit of confrontation.0