I'm a little confused about this guy in my life. I'm willing to let it go but I want some clarification first.
Okay, so it all started with him telling me he had some feelings for me and he can see it being love in the future. With that I told him that I really like him and this led to us hanging out more and I stayed the night at his house (not for sex, he had been drinking and I didn't have my car), We made out that night and he tried to take it further but I didn't let him (because he was drunk).
After that he made plans with me to hang out again but forgot...Which is something he has done before and to a lot of people (reason an ex broke up with him). But he tried to make it up to me. He later got sick (nasty sick), so I only texted to see how he was doing.
Now I had invited him to something important (a concert) to me and he said how much he really wanted to go. During the weeks before the concert I would randomly bring it up and he would get what somewhat excited about going and talk about how good I was going to be. But he also told me to remind him the day before and the day of so he doesn't forget. I did that but he didn't come. I was pissed but I didn't call him telling him that. I just let him know that it sucked that he wasn't there.
The week of my concert my friends hacked my facebook and changed my relationship status to in a relationship...but didn't put a name with it. I know he saw this but now he has taken me off as a friend on facebook and I'm really not sure why.
Can anyone give me a reason for why he would do this...I really care about this guy but he isn't answering my call or text so I don't know if he is mad or what...
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Is he a stoner? It sounds like a real stoner behaviour, that he can't even keep the date of a concert in his head, and would need to be reminded the day before, and on the day itself.
And then to still not show up?
Even if stoned, that's asshole behaviour.
He probably thought he had a shot with you, and was taking his sweet time getting around to doing anything about it. Then when he saw your FB status changed, thought "f***, I left it too late, or she was more pissed about the concert than she let on." After all, as you say, even an ex dumped him for that sh*t.
By taking you off fb, he's essentially saying he wasn't interested in you as a friend. He may not be mad. He may be just disgusted with himself.0