I'm a big girl, I'm not HUGE but I am big! I'm 5'7" and 260 pounds. Everyone I know says I don't look my weight etc, then again I wear clothes that are respectable for my weight I don't try shoving my fat ass into a size 16 just to say that's what I wear! I eat healthy, I watch my fats, calories and carbs. I take a 1 mile walk each day (running isn't an option due to asthma which I've had since a child) I also am active all day as I train horses and do basic farm work. My portions are normal and not over sized. Yet even at my lowest weight of 230 I still looked the same (my boobs were smaller too, lol). Honestly I just care that I'm healthy as being fat can be a serious health issue. I'm not deluded into thinking I'm not fat, I am. That doesn't mean I'm lazy, unclean or anything associated with the two. The question is that even if a fat girl is healthy would you still not date her?
Guys could you ever date a fat girl even if she was healthy?
What Guys Said 11
Healthy my ass. You're an inch shorter and pushing near my weight. I think I'm more like 300, but 260 on a girl is entirely different than a guy. If I ever called myself healthy I'd be delusional. I don't get colds or the flu but I bet my heart and other body parts hates me.
I wouldn't date a girl that big ever. Highest I'd go is 200.3
Asthma is not incurable, it is treatable and can also be beaten.
I did it, as for asthma being an excuse, it's not.
Go get healthy if you feel the need to, because end of the day it's your body.
As for weight and who I would date, I personally am super skinny and don't find people far outweighing me as attractive.
Could still be good friends however.1
I used to weigh 250 and I felt like a beached whale. I'm 5'11''.
That's morbidly obese, you are not healthy by any means. Anyone who tells you otherwise isn't helping you. You need the truth. The truth is, you need to lay off the crap foods and get used to exercise. Lose some weight, that's disgusting.2
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my wife is a sz 16 and I love it... hope she never gets skinny... skinny gals do nothing for me1
I will not date fat women.0
I wouldn't but I'm sure there's guys around your weight that would0
YOU ARE HUGE WOMAN1
If I was physically attracted to her I would.0
What Girls Said 6
Depends on the kind of guy you're going for, but in regards to most guys: I think that would be a problem. Obesity is definitely a health issue, and for that reason I would say that you're not healthy. Heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer, the list goes the health risks of obesity. It's good that you work around the farm and eat decent proportions, but I would suggest exercising more, eliminating sodas, fast food, etc from your diet, and cutting down on carbs. My brother has severe asthma, so I understand where you're coming from with the running thing, but there are ways to get around that if you talk to your doctor. My brother's doctor suggested yoga and swimming as great ways to exercise and improve your lung capacity. Also, reducing weight may actually help you with your asthma and you'll get more comfortable running. You know, odds are you'll feel a lot better if you lose some weight, and it'll boost your confidence with the guys :) Good luck.0
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I don't understand how you think 260 lbs is healthy when it's actually obese. I healthy weight for someone of your height would be anywhere from 125 to 150 lbs and you are way above that range. If you watch your diet like you say you do along with exercise, how can you be that big? I'm sorry but that is just not possible.1
Being fat means you are unhealthy at the moment. There is no way to be both fat and healthy. It doesn't mean you will always be unhealthy, and as you are loosing weight, why are you upset that these guys don't find fat attractive? The truth is that no one should ever date someone whose appearance does';t make them interested. if you like someones personality, and love them, you should be their friend, not date them. You only date people you are attracted to.0
I would gladly date her. I like my women soft... YUMMMMmmmyyy :)0
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