You could look at it either way... I think I could use a guy's perspective. I'm not my boyfriend's usual type of girl. In the past he's only dated materialistic girlie girls. I'm more of a laid-back, "one of the guys" kinda girl.
My boyfriend told me he's never met a girl like me. He's always telling me that he's never had a girlfriend who does _____ before. One of these things is smoking pot, which is a good thing to him because he smokes too. He said he's never actually loved hanging out with his previous girlfriends as much as he does with me.
When we first started hanging out, he told me that he wasn't really looking for a relationship, and if he did get into one, it wouldn't be with a girl like the ones he's dated before. So because of that I know that I probably shouldn't be worried, but I can't help it. Things are still new for us, and I'm just worried that he'll end up getting bored with me after the novelty has worn off because I'm not the kind of girl he usually goes after.
Guys what do you think? Do you think he'll stay this happy with me or do you think he's more likely to lose interest?
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Sounds like it could go either way like Impex said. Since he wasn't looking for a relationship in the beginning, you might be either a rebound or he got involved with you because he knew you guys didn't really have a future since you're different. For wahtever reason, I would be careful of him if you like him and he's not ready for a relationship and you are. Just a thought. It could also be that he is sick of those girls and wants to settle down more with a down to earth girl similar to him. I would look at the people in ihis life and see if you match up to them and fit in. I've noticed that if I go after guys that aren't my type but try them since what I was doing hasn't worked, it ends shortly after since it's not what I'm used to and find it's not what I like. If it's still new, it's too early to tell. best of luck!0