I have been hanging out with this guy a few times. we hug all the time. today they were long,drawn out hugs(which I loved). he said that I looked really pretty today. and he asked me if I was a good kisser. I was like idk. he said good answer.lol. we went for a walk by the beach and he didn't hold my hand or anything..he hasn't yet. when I get hugs, he sometimes will start to touch my butt or the small of my back. but I want to be able to cuddle or kiss? what do guys think of girls initiating kissing?or cuddling? how do you initiate those two things? could I just be like "so..you Haven't kissed me yet. OR so you ever gonna kiss me lol?
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What do I think of girls initiating?
I'm pretty sure that you can initiate cuddling. Girls initiating cuddling are fine, not very many guys that I know would dislike that. I personally would love it girls initiated cuddling with me. Cuddling is innocent enough that you shouldn't worry too much about how he'll react. Kissing is a little harder to do as it does often require the right timing. However there is no reason why the girl can't be the one to initiate the kiss. The first two girls I kissed, they initiated it the first time. Granted I'm one of the shyest guys you'll meet, there's no reason why a girl can't initiate a kiss, especially if the guy is taking his time.
However, I don't recommend saying anything like what suggested. The reason, it completely puts him on the spot. I'd probably completely freeze if a girl said that to me. Either that or I'd be so nervous I'd probably miss. Don't say something like that, I can understand you being too nervous to initiate it, but I don't recommend saying it.0