I really don't need a guy for much of anything.. I don't even require much attention.. I'm smart, attractive, cool and far from needy.
Guys keep vanishing on me. When they disappear for no apparent reason, I might be a little upset depending on the situation, but I take it with a grain of salt and move on. I don't bother asking questions because I feel if someone can't shoot me a simple text every now and then, he's clearly not interested. I feel like guys don't take me seriously at all because I come off so "detached".
What the heck do you guys want?
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I, for one, have no problems with having an independent minded girlfriend. If guys are just disappearing on you, my thought is, that you're sending out signals that you couldn't give a rat's whether he comes or goes. Guys do not like that sh*t. If, I for one, am with a girl who gives me the impression that she's a little annoyed that I want to kiss her because she's my girlfriend then one day I too would just disappear. I would disappear without telling you because you've given me the direct impression that you would not even notice I was gone! It's my belief this is what you're doing to guys. It's not being independent that's the problem, but you're emotionally dead towards guys. You're on the fast track of being a spinster.1