I went on the 4th date with a girl I really like. We had a great time laughed and talked for hours, but up until this point I still hadn't kissed her so I knew I had to go for it. I did but got a brief closed mouth kiss. Should I be worried she's not into it? It is only the first kiss, so maybe I'm getting carried away, but usually when a girl and I kiss (for the first time) it's like a full make out session. I felt some restraint on her part, I kissed her once and followed it up with another closed mouth kiss. I know she had a great time because we were smiling the entire night, but she didn't send me a text after the date to let me know she had a great time as usual. I don't have a problem if she likes to take things slow. I'm just curious if I should be concerned I guess. What are people's opinions? She gave me the "eye" a few times and I felt like I made the right choice in finally going for it, but am a little insecure.
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I am insanely shy about kissing she might have felt insecure about her technique, her breath, or like princess said she just wasn't ready for a kiss or she may have been afraid it would lead to something more that she wasn't ready for. If you've been going out and having great dates and there's a chemistry between you it will happen when the moments right. Does she know these are romantic dates? I know it sounds ridiculous but some people are dense so have you told her how you feel? Has she told you how she feels? Did you come on too aggressively? Or did you approach with a lack of confidence?0
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