Say I'm lame all you want, but I actually don't know how to compliment my boyfriend. We've been dating like a month and I've called him cute one time I think. I wanna tell him how good looking I think he is, but a)my face will go red cause it always does whenever I compliment someone (dont ask), and b) I don't just want to say 'oh you're hot' I want to say in a cute way
how should I say it for the 1st time without going red, and how can I find a good way to say it?
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Ooo I feel for you, I used to get all embarrassed and self conscious when I complimented my boyfriend. I think you just gotta go for something that's most natural and something that's cute/sweet/flirty rather than a direct your hot. I liked when my boyfriend would dress nice because you can go for a simple "I love when you wear _____________ like that, you look really cute". Or you go for a playful "someone's looking nice today" with a cheesy smile/nudge. You don't have to declare your love to the world or stare him in the eyes your just giving the boy a compliment. Think about how he compliments you and just change it so it fits him. You can even start out on complimenting him on how well he does things or how awesome you think he is, there isn't any wrongs in complimenting, it just has to be personal for him. And as for how often I would say at least once a day. Its a healthy thing to have in a relationship, it makes him feel good. If he told you your beautiful everyday you would feel pretty good about yourself so just do the same for him in making him feel good. Happy complimenting! :)1