whenever I find a guy attractive or I like him, I start ignoring him, I don't mean to do it, but it happens. I'm afraid to say something he won't like or make anything awkward. perfect example last night I was out with friends and I said bye to everyone there except him, I got in my car and literally kicked my self in the butt. he's going to think I don't like him. he's really quiet and when it comes to this stuff I make like it doesn't exist. how can I talk to him, my friends are all hanging out again, and yes he will be there, so I have another shot. another one of my concerns is, I'm not sure if he thinks I'm cute, or wants me to talk to him. it sounds really dumb, but I need to get over this. if you have any advice please respond, ill try anything, really :P
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Why do we do what we do..
For the world is a beutiful rose
But we are to worried about the thorns to touch it..
Simply let your self be cut by the thorns.. Then you will know how to avoid them later...
You need to open up.. Show him and him alone that you like him..
If you fall or get cut I know it hurts but to quote "Meet the Robinsons"
From failure we learn.. From sucess not so much..
Dont be afraid...
And don't tell me your not...
Your afraid he might not like you
Your afraid your ignoring him
Your afraid you might be messing it up
And so on and so on...
Your just who you are forget these types of fears and act..
Now on how to act I have a few ways you can..
1. Tell him you like him.. This may not seem like it will change your problem.. It wont.
But it will let him know why your acting this way.. So he can act acordingly
2. Tell him your peoblem.. This goes better if you do #1
If you can't do that try these..
3. Give him a hug.. I don't mean one of those good bye hugs that last a few seconds and the guys not even sure it happened.. I mean a real hug.. One that lasts for minutes.. If he's your friend.. Liking you or not.. But is your friend.. You can do this for no reason what so ever.. Guys know girls have issues they can't tell us.. But it makes us feel warm and happy knowing we are the guy they need to hug to get over them.. Do it a few times over a few weeks and he's yours..
4. Remember him first.. Don't flirt with other guys but him.. Don't say goodbye to anyone but him.
Try these first if they don't work... I might have another idea.. But its a long stretch.. So it'd not worth posting..
All you need to do his tell him or show him you care.. And "never forget" you do1