How to I get him to text me without saying "text me"?

i want this boy to text me more often, but I don't wanna just be like hey text me more. how can I just get him to do it on his own?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I wondered about that for the longest time until I finally found a solution. It wasn't even intended.. It just happened..

    And now the guy is my boyfriend and we're totally in love btw! haha

    So the solution is basically to text him a lot so that he's used to the two of you texting. Then stop all of a sudden. He'll miss it and start texting you himself.

    Kind of reverse psychology!

    It really works!

    I even still do it. Even now that we're in a relationship. Whenever I feel like I'm always initiating our conversations or texting I just randomly suddenly stop...

    They always come back saying something like "HEY! Where've you been? I missed you!"

    Good luck!

    I hope this helped :)

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What Guys Said 3

  • If he's just not a naturally communicative person (like me) then you can't. The way he is is how you're stuck.

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  • i'll come back for the answers cos I need to know that myself lol

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  • I personally hate texting and know a lot of guys who do too. He might be the same

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What Girls Said 4

  • Yea this is hard, if he's simply not interested..I don't know what to say.

    When your texting him tell him about certain important days your going out/doing stuff so he'll text and ask you how it went. (Love to hear how guys reply to this..).

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  • I know EXACTLY how ya feel :/ sorry no qdvice he still doesn't text me more :L wana answer my question? Thanks

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  • Ask questions on text which will continue to chat.

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  • Text him first

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