My boyfriend never talks about his exes?

even if I ask him he'll answer in the most brief possible way

is this good or bad?

is he hiding something?

is he worried about me being jealous?

is he ashamed of his past?

etc...

i just don't get it


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Most Helpful Guy

  • You shouldn't be asking about his exes, for me it ruins everything.

    I used to be upfront and answer whatever I was asked and then got burned. So I'm 100% with him on this. I learned that what is in the past belongs to the past. What matter is who he is to you right now. Whenever something from his past will make sense for him to share with you, he will do so.

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What Guys Said 1

  • its nothing, that is how healthy relationships work. people shouldn't talk about their exs very much (if at all) with their current partner...id be far more worried if this was something that you DO talk about alot

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What Girls Said 2

  • I think it likely means he's simply moved on from his past and doesn't find it important anymore. Which is a good thing.

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  • or he was hurt and doesn't want to bring it up...

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