even if I ask him he'll answer in the most brief possible way
is this good or bad?
is he hiding something?
is he worried about me being jealous?
is he ashamed of his past?
i just don't get it
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You shouldn't be asking about his exes, for me it ruins everything.
I used to be upfront and answer whatever I was asked and then got burned. So I'm 100% with him on this. I learned that what is in the past belongs to the past. What matter is who he is to you right now. Whenever something from his past will make sense for him to share with you, he will do so.1