So, I'm really into this guy but I don't want to ever smother him. I usually text my best friend throughout the entire day and it's like nothing to us.
This guy and I have gone out on a few dates and at first we were texting each other quite a bit and it seems to have lessened up. He'll text me once in a while now, but mostly I'm the one who will always touch base. I usually wait a few days or if I must text I limit it to once and then leave it alone.
Guys, when you're into a girl, do you care how much she texts you? Do you even keep track of who texts who first and what not? I feel like girls are the only ones that do this. Am I over thinking it or should I just text him when I feel the urge to?
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Girls and guys communicate for different reasons.
Girls communicate to build and maintain social relations and feel closer to their friends and families. That's why girls can spend hours sitting and talking. And girls can spend hours texting each other.
Guys communicate because there is a purpose. They need to handover a message or schedule something. It is more important for guys to do things together, and talking is not the essential part of our friendships. It is the things we do together. Get drunk, play video games, attend sports etc.
I think most guys will be annoyed if the girl texts too much. It just seems... a lot of time is wasted on unimportant messages. We are not being mean on purpose - we just communicate differently.4