We're friends on Facebook and we do text and he usually responds very quickly, but then he'll randomly stop, or just not answer if it's me initiating a conversation.
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There's no excuse for that, I know how you feel. A girl I was dating for a while would never contact me first, and every once in a while when I did make the effort to reach out to her she wouldn't even reply. I understood she was busy but I had enough of that and just stopped contacting her.
There's only a few possibilities. He's SUPER shy (I mean come on it's a text/IM), he doesn't care that much about you and only responds when he really wants to (I have female friends text me that I read and just forget to respond cause I'm doing something. If I really liked her I would stop and reply right away), or he's playing mind games to make it seem like he's not interested but actually is, to make you fall for him even more.0