So I just found out that research shows Asian men ranks the lowest in desirability. I think this is because a lot of women have some preconceived notion that we do not speak English and only date other Asian girls. Let's also not forget that most people think we have tiny d***s lmao. To my question though... Would an Asian-American have a better chance at dating someone other than an Asian girl? I feel like all Asian guys are grouped together into 1 category when there should be 2. There's the Asian guy that just came from his country then there are ones that are born here. I've just never been that attracted to Asian girls. I've only had Asian girls tell me I was attractive and only 1 white girl in my lifetime (which I f***ed up cause I was scared sh*tless). I can fluently speak English. The only thing I can see turning girls away is the fact that I'm a skinnier fellow and girls seem to like a stockier build (which they define as masculine). It was actually stated in the research that girls didn't like Asian guys because of how feminine we are which is true that I see a lot of feminine Asian guys. If an Asian guy approached you would you immediately think he can't speak English? Would you assume he is nerdy? Well, I am nerdy as I LOVE computers and my hobbies but I do not watch anime and all that good stuff. So many thoughts rush through my head when I want to approach a girl that is not Asian that I always p**** out at the last second lol. I don't want to make it sound like I have something against Asian girls. It's just I have honestly always found white, black and Latinas to be very pretty. Even my parents urge me to meet a white girl because they think 1/2 white 1/2 Asian babies are cute lol. Sometimes I wish the internet didn't exist so I didn't look these things up.. With all that is said though, I am proud to be Asian. I do not "wish" I was something else... It's just a bit disheartening to read the results from that experiment.
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"I just found out that research shows Asian men ranks the lowest in desirability." Is this real research, with randomized sampling, a large data set, and professional surveyors, or is this a half-dozen undergrads with notebooks? Most "research" is straight junk. Don't take it for granted that it's worthwhile.
"I think this is because a lot of women have some preconceived notion that we do not speak English and only date other Asian girls." No one who has met Asians in real life think this, *especially* not in the US.
"I've only had Asian girls tell me I was attractive and only 1 white girl in my lifetime (which I f***ed up cause I was scared sh*tless)." This, is the heart of your problem; it's not that you're Asian, it's that you're fearful. For a girl, it's just not hot if he's scared of you.
"It was actually stated in the research that girls didn't like Asian guys because of how feminine we are..." Again with the research! I read stuff like this and my bullsh*t detectors go off. Why don't yours?
Man, go for what you want to go for, Asian or not. White girls, black girls, Latinas--they're girls, not space aliens, not wild beasts, but girls. Meet them, talk to them, take them out, and nature takes its course.
And for heaven's sake, don't believe what you read on teh internets unless you're *sure* the author knows what they're talking about, and doesn't have an axe to grind.3
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