what can a girl do that makes you want to kiss her?
or what about her makes you want to kiss her?
basically I'm trying to get the guy I like to kiss me
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Setup is important, a kiss should be impulsive but the reality of impulse is there is a lot of biology behind it. If you want to improve your odds you need to setup the situation to encourage a kiss scenario (though don't over think this part of it will work with opposite effect).
1) No Stresses. Trying to arrange a kiss near their Mum or their ex girlfriend (no matter how over her he is) is sailing into disaster.
2) Lots of indicators you want to be kissed and especially by him (hint it as strongly as you dare, if you think he's the type to be into it, just outright joke, so I hope you kiss me tonight, wink and see do something else for a bit). Though the more subtle the better, some guys are put off if a girl is too obvious / too easy to read. Though just to be a pain some are lost without hammer blow hints... know your man. For preference if he only picks up / hears theses hints its a lot sexier.
3) Be in a situation where a kiss would not be unexpected or seem out of place. So preferably just the two of you somewhere enjoying a day (though of course be safe).
4) A moment. Sit an take in the environment on a bench in the park, hold his hand.
When you have the chance, at the right moment:
Intensity of attraction in your eyes is the key. Hold his eyes. Smile. Lean in (like Lee10 says). If you find he's not going to kiss you but he's not backing away either, just hold there in close don't flinch or worry what he's thinking wait move very very slowly forward.
Basicly if he doesn't back/away he's interested even if he doesn't kiss you. Some guys are hellishly shy about kissing, some guys you would have to kiss first.1